每日原则：迎接而非躲避痛苦

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• 找到、接受，并学会如何应对你的弱点；

• 希望身边的人对你坦诚，而不是隐瞒对你的负面看法；

• 展现真实的自我，而不是强行把弱点伪装成优势。

If you don’t let up on yourself and instead become comfortable always operating with some level of pain, you will evolve at a faster pace. That’s just the way it is.

Every time you confront something painful, you are at a potentially important juncture in your life—you have the opportunity to choose healthy and painful truth or unhealthy but comfortable delusion. The irony is that if you choose the healthy route, the pain will soon turn into pleasure. The pain is the signal! Like switching from not exercising to exercising, developing the habit of embracing the pain and learning from it will “get you to the other side.” By “getting to the other side,” I mean that you will become hooked on:

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