每日原则：每个人都有权利和义务去设法了解重要的事情

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每个人都应该可以自由发问，但同时记住自己有义务在相应讨论中保持开放心态。把你们的辩论记录下来，以便万一你们无法达成共识或弄清情况，可以把意见发给别人供决策参考。当然，要记住你是在创意择优下工作——别忘了你自己的可信度大小。

There will come a point in all processes of thinking things through when you are faced with the choice of requiring the person who sees things differently from you to slowly work things through until you see things the same way, or going along with the other person, even though their thinking still doesn’t seem to make sense. I recommend the first path when you are disagreeing about something important and the latter when it’s unimportant. I understand that the first path can be awkward because the person you are speaking to can get impatient. To neutralize that I suggest you simply say, “Let’s agree that I am a dumb shit but I still need to make sense of this, so let’s move slowly to make sure that happens.”

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