双语阅读|在保姆面前父母永远都不该提这些事

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find a great nanny , sometimes they start to feel like family .

作为保姆——或请了一个保姆——都是一个很棒的经历。保姆不仅能照顾一个暖心可爱的孩子，还能激励他们、教会他们成长。当找到一位很棒的保姆时，你有时候会觉得她们/他们就像家人一样。

I've been a nanny on and off over the past five years , and I've gotten very close to the families I have worked for . However , it's important to remember that no matter how much we might feel like family , we actually aren't . That means there are lines you shouldn't cross , discussions you shouldn't have .

过去五年，我断断续续地做过保姆，我与雇佣我的家庭也都十分亲近。然而，记住这一点十分重要：无论觉得自己多么像雇主的亲人，实际上我们并不是。这就意味着有些底线你是不该跨越的、有些对话你们是不能谈的。

To ensure that you aren't pushing boundaries and making your nanny uncomfortable , here are three things

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