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“As the whole institution of marriage becomes increasingly less secure, do you think BDSM, like homosexuality, could eventually be recognized by the public or even become mainstream one day?” asked one of Li’s followers, explaining that he has been practicing BDSM for more than five years. Li answered that she was “very, very optimistic” about the future of BDSM in China because many more people are experimenting with it.
A question about virtual sex on Weibo to Li Yinhe. (Weibo/Li Yinhe)
Other questions reflect more common concerns in China.
Amanda Yao, a 20-year-old student based in Liaoning province in the north who self-identifies as asexual, asked Li via Weibo in July: “I don’t have any desire to kiss or have sex. But I am worried about the pressure to get married from my family… what can I do as a single female, and is it tragic to age alone?”
Li responded, “You should try to figure out if you are just not ready for love, or if you are really asexual. I would suggest you to try achieving an orgasm by following a sex manual.” The question has seen more than 400 paid views.
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