正文
.
Like
I
might
take
her
to
the
family
bathroom
or
a
quiet
hallway
,
so
she
can
stop
crying
and
stop
making
noise
.
萨拉:
淘气。他们在公共场所非常淘气。我认为不应该当着其他人的面管教自己的孩子。所以,如果在公共场所,我三岁的孩子开始淘气,因为她想要从商店里买玩具而哭闹,那我会把她带到安静的地方,直到她冷静下来。我可能会把她带去家庭卫生间或是安静的大厅,直到她停止哭闹,不再制造噪音。
John
:
I
see
.
So
you
wouldn't
just
give
her
the
toy
she
wants
.
约翰:
我明白了。你不会给她买她想要的玩具。
Sarah
:
No
.
I
don't
think
you
should
do
that
sort
of
thing
to
make
your
child
be
quiet
,
just
give
them
something
until
they
are
quiet
because
then
they'll
be
bad
more
in
the
future
.
If
they
know
they
can
cry
and
scream
,
and
mom
and
dad
will
give
them
what
they
want
,
they'll
just
be
worse
and
worse
.
萨拉:
不会。我认为不应该用那种方法让孩子安静下来,不应该给他们一些东西让他们安静下来,因为这样的话,孩子以后会越来越难管。如果他们知道他们可以通过哭闹来让父母给他们想要的东西,他们会变本加厉。
John
:
Oh
,
I
see
.
They'll
learn
that
it's
okay
.
They
can
get
what
they
want
by
crying
.
约翰:
我明白了。他们会认为那样做没问题。他们可以通过哭闹来得到想要的东西。
Sarah
:
Yeah
.
萨拉:
对。
John
:
But
don't
you
think
you'll
–
won't
you
lose
more
time
if
you
have
to
take
your
kids
to
some
quiet
place
to
calm
down
?
约翰:
但是你不认为,如果你把孩子带去安静的地方,让他们冷静下来,这样会花费更多时间吗?
Sarah
:
Yeah
.
You
lose
time
but
I
think
it's
worth
it
because
I
think
of
the
future
and
the
time
I'll
save
by
making
sure
that
my
child
is
better
behaved
in
the
future
.
And
the
other
thing
too