在这前后，她和 Nick Cave 陷入恋爱。一个有意思的现象，说起PJ Harvey（她真不是Mick Harvey 的妹妹），大家一般会说，是 Nick Cave 的前女友；但是说起 Lydia Lunch 和 Nick cave，反过来，是说，Nick Cave 是 Lydia Lunch 的 ex-boyfriend.....
他们同居的14天里写了50多首歌，82-83年间断续录制，87年发行
Honeymoon in Red
时候，他们已经分手甚至决裂。
Nick Cave, who I completely respect as one of the finest lyricists rock music has ever known, never understood me at all -- either as a woman, as an artist, or as an individual. He never got me.
It's simple: you either get me, you accept me; or you do not get me-- and he never got me.
I don't know if the dividing line was the pleasure principle. I was really into gluttony and pleasure but not artificial stimulants
之后她和 The Birthday Party 的 吉他手Rowland Howard 还保持着很好的关系，和老好人 Mick Harvey 都掰了。
