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所以列出一些群聊基本规则很重要，但你要知道，如果你的话费账单是你爸给付的，他可不一定会遵守你的规则（就别邀请他入群了）。
✖ DON'T: Have a one-to-one conversation
不要：一对一聊天
This is a big NO NO.
千万别这样做。
Firstly, the clue is in the name "group chat" so having a conversation that only affects you and another member is a massive
faux pas
.
首先是因为，这是“群聊”，所以和某一个人在群里聊你俩之间的事很无礼。
faux pas：失礼
Only post things everyone is interested in or will enjoy.
在群里只发布所有人都感兴趣，或愿意看的内容。
Secondly, the solution is simple. Just message that person privately. Not everyone wants to know what time you're meeting Jackie to go the cinema.
办法很简单。只要私下和对方发消息就可以了。不是所有人都想知道你什么时间要和杰基去看电影。
✔
DO: Check you're messaging the right group
要：确保你的消息发对了群
最近，有位家长打算找老师沟通给孩子换座位的事情，认为同桌上课讲话影响到了自家孩子。可是一个不小心，消息发到了班级群，群里立马炸开锅。
Check once, check twice and check again before hitting send.
按下发送键前，要再三确认。
At best you might be embarrassed but at worst you might have to leave that group and spend the rest of your days avoiding the people in it.
如果你发错了群，好的情况是大不了尴尬一点，最糟糕的情况是，你不得不退群，还要在之后躲着群里的朋友。
